Thursday, July 25, 2013

Aliya + 3 weeks – “The Interview”

In the past week I had four interviews including a followup interview for a job that I am very interested in. The initial interview was over the phone but this one was in person, now that we have arrived. Three of the 4 came through Nefesh B’Nefesh and one was an interview that I managed to snag myself through my own networking contacts. I am particularly interested in that one as well.

When I was here back in April-May I had a number of interviews, professional meetings and other networking get togethers so I got a chance to familiarize myself with the interview culture, which is quite different from how it was for me in the US. Back in New York, going for an interview certainly meant a suit, white shirt and tie; cuff-links would be a nice touch. Here in Israel, sandals without socks is a nice touch. So I might have overdone it a bit when I went to one interview in my white shirt with my initials monogrammed on the sleeve, but I was practically out of clean white shirts after Tisha B’Av (does anyone know of a good cleaners in the Gush?)



I was taken aback a bit when one interviewer asked me my age but I should have been prepared for that kind of cultural difference. Many of the job descriptions say that they are for men or women – not something that you are likely to see in a job description in the US.

All of the interviews went very well and I would be delighted to have any of the jobs although they each had their pluses and minuses. The hiring process at all of the companies is considerably longer than what I am accustomed to – along the lines of a month, often filled with 4 meetings. Each position has differing requirements for knowledge of Hebrew ranging from requiring a high level of knowledge, being able to read and write lengthy reports in Hebrew to requiring practically no Hebrew at all.

Although most of the positions are in the Tel Aviv (Petach Tikva, Ramat Gan, Hertzelia) area, some positions are in Jerusalem which is a lot closer for me. Although driving during rush hour to Hertzelia could take me close to 2 hours during rush hour, I would not eliminate practically any position from consideration on any one issue. You never know – by the time you reach your 2nd or 3rd interview, you might hear a different story.


In the US, I would often find job descriptions that match my background almost perfectly. I generally do not find that over here. But that is really not a problem – I would be delighted to share what I have learned over my professional career while learning new skills here. It is always good to “stretch” a bit, pick up a few new tricks and learn how they cope with the unique challenges that they face here.

Of course, certain things are the same as in the States. I always make sure that I know about the company that I am interviewing with, I come with a positive attitude and I always find that I have a few questions to ask about the specific job – is it a new position, what happened to the prior person who held the position (hopefully he was promoted), what are the biggest challenges that they face, how large a group I would be working with, etc. And if it is clear that the one that you are interviewing for is just not right for you, it does not hurt to ask if they have any contacts that would be more appropriate.


Most of all, I know that I have to just keep working at it until that right job comes along and I’m sure that it will soon. Probably when I finally break down and wear sandals to the interview.

Monday, July 15, 2013

Aliyah + 2 weeks "Smelling the Roses"

We rushed into this past Shabbat, putting last minute touches on so many things before we had to light candles. I managed to forget to put tape on the switch in our refrigerator (thank goodness Pearl remembered) and when I finally got to the beit Knesset and sat down, I gave a big sigh. I needed this shabbat a LOT. I was speaking with someone later and mentioned that for the first time, I am looking forward to Tish’a B’Av because it will give me an additional day of rest this week.

We have been so busy getting things done that we have not had much of a chance to just sit back and enjoy the fruits of our hard work. Yesterday, our appliances were installed so we were able to have our first home-cooked meal – that is certainly something to celebrate, especially after a long day in Talpiot, choosing tiles and bathroom fixtures and (finally!) buying the two beds that we need for the family that is arriving for Ilan and Julia’s wedding.


Morning clouds over Beitar Illit


This morning I looked out of our window and saw the lovely sunrise on a cool, dry summer day. I could see Beitar under the clouds that stretched out to the Mediterranean Sea. It was a sight to behold. Last Friday we saw a painter across the street, setting up her easel to paint the magnificent view that we are zoche to see every day. I never lived in a place that would warrant the attention of an artist before.


This morning we are going to have pancakes on the porch and I plan on just relaxing and sipping my coffee for an extra few minutes while breathing in the fresh air. There are so many things that need to be addressed “dachuf” (urgently) but they will just have to wait a few minutes longer. Sometimes you just have to take a moment to smell the roses.

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Aliya + 1 week – “A Letter From Home”

Aliya + 1 week – “A Letter From Home”

Dear Friends and Family,
We just got Internet today so we have a lot of catching up to do. Thank you so much for all the updates and keeping on top of the voting! I am so glad that you are following through with this even while we were offline. It has been an interesting week since we arrived last Wednesday. I have not yet decided what to mention in my blog but so much has happened that I cannot imagine covering even a fraction of it here.

At Newark Airport
The Nefesh B’Nefesh people were so calm and helpful throughout. Besides guiding us through the processing at the airports and assisting at getting us our teudot zehut and oleh, they helped get our customs file open by faxing those papers to the customs office. That probably cut a day or so off of the time that it takes to get us our lift. And while playing the Jewish Geography game we found that we are second cousins to one of the NBN people.

We managed to rent a car for a month since we could not find a reasonable car to lease or buy. This way we are buying ourselves some time - our most precious commodity right now. We had a LOT of trouble getting our cell phones set up correctly but we are finally good now. We got a great deal from HOT Mobile - they are giving us the cell phone service for 50 NIS / month for everything including the ISP for the home for free! That makes the home Internet very cheap - something under $25 / month from Bezek (since you pay separately for the ISP and the infrastructure here).


Out of necessity, we have become quite efficient at getting things done. Before lunch today, we brought our clothing to the cleaners (so that we can have them back before the 9 days), got our dud shemesh (solar hot water) fixed, got confirmation that our lift will be delivered on Tuesday and managed to go with the contractor to Talpiot (where else?) to shop for all of the things for the bathroom, especially the tub, toilet and tile. And while  setting up our bank accounts and credit cards this morning (it is so nice being able to take care of business on Sunday!), we had one of those "only in Israel" moments when we saw the teller wearing a gun. Amazing!

Putting up the mezuzah on the front door
As soon as we got the car on Friday, we (Yair and I) ran over to Kever Rachel to say a few tehillim for Jeffery Hamber (שרה אביבה בן יעקב פתחיה רפאל). I had that as a very high priority on my list of things to do. Kever Rachel's placement made it the default the place where the Jewish people would visit on their way into and out of galut, so I wanted to go there, now that we are returning from galut.

I joined several members of the yishuv to daven in Mearat HaMachpela on Friday morning - they do that every Friday before shabbat mevorchim. Next stop - the Kotel.

"Welcome Home"
Ilan and Julia joined us for our first Shabbat here. Although we had practically no furniture and were sleeping on mattresses on the floor, Pearl managed to set up Julia’s room with a little night table by flipping over a basket and putting a cloth on it and put a few flowers in a cup to make it feel just a bit more homey. We were invited to about 5 meals so we had to take a couple of rainchecks. And we had so many people stopping by before shabbat with flowers, wine, cake and challah, not to mention mattresses, chairs, water kettles, etc. It was a nice touch to get flowers and a bottle of wine from our contractor!

 But I think that the highlight of the week was getting an aliyah at mincha on shabbat, when everybody sang Veshaavu Banim L'Gvulam. We are finally home.

Now if I can only think of what to write for this week’s blog…


-Daniel and Pearl